Socializing

Today was a big day, we showed Henry off in public. We took him to breakfast with Robin and Bob. Kate went to school with Robin at Penn, and she was in town for a visit. We've been dying to show Henry off and thought this was a good opportunity to start.



We had breakfast at Tohono Chul Park. They have a patio where we were able to sit at an outdoor table that was about as secluded as we could hope for. I think Henry really enjoyed doing something new. He behaved himself very well. At first he was fairly quiet as he looked at all the new things and people around him. Later he warmed up and played pony boy and did some talking. He had some breakfast along with us, prunes and oatmeal. When he fussed, I took him to walk around a little humming bird garden they have there, which was very beautiful. Henry was able to see butterflies and humming birds and bees. He really enjoyed sitting in the high chair, even if he seemed terribly small in it.

Robin and Bob were very complimentary. They commented on how mature he was and how he seemed like a little person. We certainly feel he has been through a lot for his age and so has a certain amount of life experience behind him. They said how cute he was and all the things that parents want to hear. It was very nice to hear. He has turned out to be so much more than we had a right to expect back when he was in the nicu.

It was a bit of a new experience for Kate and me as well. We've only taken him to doctors offices and his grandparents house so we didn't exactly know how things would go. Little questions came up like, do we bring a stroller or carry him in his car seat? In the end, it worked out wonderfully.



Now we are pondering his next social event. We've been so good about not exposing him to illness unnecessarily. If we jump the gun and start showing him off to everyone and he gets sick, we won't forgive ourselves. So I think we will continue to be very cautious while still trying to expose him to different things. My dad is coming to visit, which will be a new thing for Henry. I'm hoping we will be able to take him to visit my aunts and uncles down in Green Valley while my father is here. We might do some more open air attractions like the Desert Museum or the Zoo. Then hopefully by his birthday, April 30th, RSV season will be over and we can have a little party for him.

After breakfast we stopped by Grandma and Grandpa's house for a little while. Grandpa came over in the late afternoon to spend some more time with Henry and help out while I had to work. Henry has been missing his evening walks because he has been taking naps at that time. He did so again today. It is warm enough now that we can take him out in the morning, which we'll probably start doing.

He had a very low intake today, under 500mls of milk. His gums really seemed to be driving him crazy this evening. He wasn't really fussy about it but he kept biting everything, drooling, and pushing up with his fingers on his upper gum. We ended up giving him a little tylenol with the hope it would ease his frustration and let him sleep better.

Here are some pictures from yesterday of Henry driving Grandma's truck.

Maestro

It has been another busy week. I'm probably not going to be able to remember all that happened. Overall, it was a good week for Henry. He is still not that interested in drinking his bottle, which is frustrating.

Let's see. On Monday, Henry had an appointment with Dorsett. We learned from Dorsett that Tara had found another PT for him. Basically, DDD is supposed to provide Henry with a PT. Tara hadn't been able to find one. Dorsett is getting paid through our insurance. We'd actually like to keep going with Dorsett because she brings out a lot of new things in Henry. On Monday, Henry started moving his arms forward in a crawl. He got the idea that he needed to move his hands when put on his hands and knees. He also spent some time propped up on our museum bench (bench in front of couch; made of same material as couch). He bent his knees to sit down from the standing position, which means that he is using the appropriate muscles to stand. He's not tightening and stiffening his legs, which would be bad.

Grandpa Joe and Jeff talked on Monday. He's coming out to visit the first week of April! We are very excited about this.

On Tuesday...neither Jeff nor I can remember what happened. We don't really have long term memories anymore. Past a couple hours, it is a struggle.

On Wednesday, Henry was a bit fussy. As I came home (I'd been teaching and running errands), I saw Veronica working on her car outside (this was around 2PM). I ran inside because I had to pump. Jeff went outside a few minutes later to see what was going on, while my mom watched Henry. There was a car, but no Veronica. Jeff got in our car and tried to find her (she was walking home). Meanwhile, her husband came with his Grandmother to try to jump start the car. Luckily, our jumper cables were in my old Toyota. Turned out that Jeff had found Veronica walking home and picked her up seconds before Chris got there. Long story short, it was a comedy of errors. We had a nice walk in the evening. The weather is great.









On Thursday, Henry started off his morning with some head shaking. While I changed his diaper, he'd shake his head. Then, I'd do it. Then, he'd do it. Went back and forth for several minutes. He thought it was fun. I guess he did this with my mom last weekend too. Henry was incredibly chatty throughout the day. He was making a lot of "Aye-ya" sounds. Some "Da" sounds. He was stringing all sorts of consonants and vowel sounds together. Dorsett came at 2PM. An observer from her work watched over the session. Tara came too, since she hadn't seen Dorsett in action. As it turns out, Dorsett knows the potential PTs through DDD pretty well. The disadvantage of going through DDD for the PTs is that they can only come once every two weeks. Dr. Tsai wants Henry to see a PT once a week. Dorsett was going to ask for an extension from my insurance, so that Henry doesn't have a gap in his physical therapy while the switch over happens. And, Dorsett was going to call one of Henry's potential PTs and let her know what a special and amazing kid Henry is. She thinks that anyone who works with Henry will want to make extra room in their schedule for him because he's a developmental "treasure." Dorsett thinks that we should also get a speech pathologist to visit Henry. She says that now is a good time to capitalize on his excitement over new sounds. I can't remember whether it was Thursday or Monday, but I had asked Dorsett whether she thought his vocalization was normal. She thinks that he's usually verbally expressive for his age. He does a lot of verbal communication for his wants and needs, which is great. We are considering trying some of the baby sign language, which gives babies a vocabulary of sorts.

After Dorsett left, Tara hung back for a few minutes. She wanted to spend time with Mr. H because she is going on vacation next week. We gave her some pictures of her and Henry. She was very moved by them. She said that she couldn't wait to show them back at the office (Project Amor, which contracts with DDD).

We then went to my parents for a quick visit with my mom, because she wasn't going to be able to come out in the afternoon. Our quick visit lasted a couple hours. Henry met Wembley, Aunt Erin and Uncle Brian's dog who is vacationing at my parents' house until Sunday. We spent a lot of time in the pool area looking at flowers and rocks. Henry spent some time at the piano. My dad didn't come home until 8PM or so as he'd been traveling with the Senator, who spent the day in Tucson. Grandpa spent a little time with Henry before we had to leave.














Today (Friday), Henry was very chatty again. He banged (lightly) his forehead against the mirror in our bathroom in his attempt to give himself a kiss. Cuyler came over today. She thought that his motor skills were looking great. Two times in a row that she's been impressed. She gave us some hints on things to do to help his fine motor skills come along. Jeff tried to weigh Henry today, but the scale just won't settle down. We think that he's around 17 lbs 7 ozs. Jeff had to do some work tonight, so it was me and Henry. When he got fussy, I'd sing the "Wheels on the Bus Go Round and Round" song that Dorsett sometimes sings to him. He loves that song. He likes to try to make his hands go round and round. He came pretty close. Most of the time, they just end up slapping each other. But he's making the effort. We ended the evening with a bath and a bottle. He's out cold.

Too Busy to Eat

Henry had a good week. He is becoming quite a handful. He wants to explore everything. He really studies objects visually and then wants to touch them. He is getting harder to feed, because he finds things so interesting, that it is easy for him to lose interest in eating his bottle if something crosses his path (e.g., Bitsy Boo).

Let's see. What happened this week? Well, I think that Grammy visited on Wednesday afternoon, and Grandpa came over in the evening. Veronica was on vacation on Thursday and Friday. I took care of Henry Thursday morning (except during my conference call, when Jeff took over). Dorsett came over on Thursday afternoon. Henry was doing well with his transitions to the sitting position. He was also using the Safari Roller (cylinder beach ball) to prop himself up and then shuffle his knees to get from Dorsett to me. Kind of like upright crawling on the knees. He is getting a little bit peeved at us these days by making him work a bit harder to get to us. We know that he has the strength and balance to shuffle to us, so we are less quick to pick him up when he starts fussing. We want him to try to come to us. In the afternoon, Jeff dropped Henry off at my parents' house. In the evening, we went over to Steve and Jamie's house to watch the Wildcats lose to West Virginia. Marley and Roger came with us, so that they could visit with Ray (golden retriever). It was fun. We were soooooo tempted to bring Henry with us. We really want to show him off. But we are holding off until RSV season is over. I'm on a preemie website. A parent just posted the other day that they just had a big 1 year birthday party for their preemie; three days later, her child came down with a cold and she's afraid it is RSV. Just a reminder to "stay the course," so to speak.

On Friday, I think that my mom came mid-morning to help for a while. Then, my dad came in the afternoon. We had an appointment in the afternoon with Tara. Henry decided to pull himself to a stand using me as leverage. He did a good job. We haven't been encouraging him to stand, because the doctors and therapists have recommended that we avoid putting Henry in standing positions (which includes contraptions that encourage kids to stand). That means no Exersaucers or bouncy seats. Basically, the research shows that kids who are put in these contraptions tend to walk later than kids who aren't put in the devices. My interpretation of the literature is that it is more of a problem for preemies than full-term (FT) babies b/c preemies have already spent a significant amount of time in the flexed position, while FT babies spent those extra months in the womb in the tucked position. The devices tend to make the babies more flexed, which isn't what the average preemie needs. Since Henry hasn't done a whole lot of standing, I pretty much let him do what he wanted. I figured that as long as he was doing it himself, it would be OK. Baby knows best. He stood several times. Guess it was something new, so he was excited to practice it.











On Friday evening, we tried something new...sitting down at the table as a family. I bought Henry a Rain Forest booster seat. I love the Fisher Price Rain Forest line. Henry had fun watching Bitsy Cat chase Princess out of the booster seat box. He played with some toys on the booster seat tray, while I watched him. Jeff made dinner. We timed it so that I fed him as we were eating. He had a great time. Made a huge mess. We gave him a bath later in the evening.






On Saturday, we had a nice morning. I think that we weighed Henry at 17 lb 5.5 ozs. Jeff took Henry over to my parents' house in the afternoon and evening, while I stayed home and worked.

On Sunday, we went over to my parents' house. Henry played, took a nap with Grandpa, sat in the swing with Grandpa, slept on Grammy, went for a walk with Grandpa, played "Pony Boy" on Grammy. It was a very full day. At some point in the afternoon, we tried a new food, "Bananas, Peaches, and Raspberries." It was a combo puree. Henry's had bananas and peaches before, but raspberries were new. No reactions so far. I took a taste and thought it was pretty good. Henry thought so too. He downed the whole jar (a large 2nd foods jar that was 90 calories). He got frustrated with the spoon and insisted on drinking it from the bowl straight. The consistency was like a smoothie, so it worked out just fine.

Henry the Carnivore

Henry had a relaxing Tuesday morning. Veronica started off his day with an infant massage. She has an associates degree in massage. We bought some grape seed oil last week. She said that he did really well with the first ten minutes, then got fidgety. That's about as well as he does for us.

He was active and vocal all day. He was pretty active before Dorsett came for his afternoon PT appointment. He did really well with her at first, but then got very fussy because he was tired. She did get him to use his arms to pull himself toward me in a sort of commando crawl. He's working on it.

The big event of the day was trying a new food: sweet potatoes with chicken. A lot of people start meat later than we are starting Henry on meats. There is some research that suggests that preemies especially benefit from early introductions to meats because they delete their stores of iron faster than full-term babies. From a physiological perspective, the problem with meat is that it is more taxing to process on the kidneys. Anyway, we decided to start him up on meat in moderation. Frankly, the amount of protein in the 2nd foods series isn't really that much. Jeff and I both tried the food. We taste every Henry eats to make sure it is OK. It mainly tasted like sweet potatoes and apricots. It contained a trace amount of chicken flavor. Henry the Carnivore liked it. At first, he gave his usual perplexed look at eating something new. He later grabbed the bowl from my hand and started lapping it up (kind of like drinking soup straight from the bowl). I think that he would have eaten the whole jar, but Jeff and I only let him have half (as it is a new food). So far, no allergic reactions.









Earlier in the afternoon, I ran some errands and picked up Henry a new jacket at Children's Orchard. It goes nicely with some shoes that Michelle L. sent Henry when he was born. We've been waiting for him to be big enough to wear them. Sure enough, they fit now!









Grandpa came over in the evening. Henry passed out around 9PM or so. That's all from the Wild Kingdom for now.

Irish Henry

Henry had a good St. Patrick's Day. He celebrated being Irish; he is 3/32 Irish.

Veronica was back today. Jeff and I found it hard to stay away from Henry. He's so darn cute. He was very talkative today. His voice rang out through the house. He made a "bye bye" sound (not inference to someone actually leaving). And he continues to give raspberries, really wet ones. Just when I didn't think he could drool anymore than he was...I was wrong. Hope those teeth show up soon.

I let Henry choose which CD he wanted to listen to. He chose Mamma Mia! over Aladdin and the Beatles. Veronica said that he "danced" to a few of the songs. I think that "Proud Mary" continues to reign as his favorite song so far.

He weighed 17 lbs 0.5 ozs today. Grammy came in the afternoon. Dorsett came for a visit, but Henry was sleeping. She stayed a few minutes, just in case he woke up. As soon as she left with her car headed down the driveway, Henry's eyes flew open. Oh well. She said that she'd come back tomorrow.

Went for a walk. Henry completely wore me out this evening. He is so very, very active. He practice his standing today. He's getting harder to feed because he always wants to be doing something or interacting with things. If I sing to him, he will suck on his bottle while listening to me. Jeff has better luck giving him the bottle.

Henry the Wildman

Henry had a very active weekend. He is enjoying his new found skills, continuing to imitate, making new sounds, reaching up for toys while sitting, but is also getting frustrated by his physical limitations. He wants to be able to crawl and walk. On Saturday morning, we spent some time in the yard. We put the playpen outside, and Henry took a nap in it. In the afternoon, Grandpa came over for a visit and played with Henry. In the late afternoon/early evening, Henry made a "Da" sound. "Da Ba" was the "word" of the day. We went for our walk as usual. And, he was quite wired in the evening. He wore Jeff out. I was working on some course prep. Jeff wasn't having much success calming Henry down in the living room, so he went to our room and decided to put Henry in his crib with the mobile on. I went back to check on them about 20 minutes later. Jeff was passed out at the foot of the bed, and Henry was dozing comfortably in the crib.

We took Henry over to his grandparents' house this morning (Sunday). Jeff and I then went to breakfast, did a little shopping, and went back home for a spell. When headed back to my parents' house around 5PM. Henry had a busy day, only taking a nap for about a 1/2 hour. He did a lot of chatting, which my mom said included his first word..."poop." Incidentally, he did have some in his diaper at the time, but we suspect that this was coincidental. He spent some time outside in the pool area with Grandpa on the swing.







My parents went out to dinner tonight with some friends. We stayed at their place and did some dog sitting for a couple hours. The youngest member of their puppy dog clan, Indy, had eye surgery last week, which requires giving him eye drops on a schedule. Indy figured out how to rip off the plastic collar that is supposed to prevent him from scratching at his eyes. Fortunately, he doesn't do that too often, except right after having the drops in his eyes. So lots of petting is involved to distract him. And then there is Schroeder, who was having a rough day because of his allergies. He is a sensitive pup of about 11 years. Finally, there is Ramses, the 18 year old Pomeranian. He is quite a character. My parents acquired him almost 5 years ago when his previous owners were about to send him to the pound because they were tired of him (I'll spare everyone my speech on how most people should not be allowed to own pets). They had neglected him through most of his life, leaving him outside most of the time (in Tucson!!!). The average lifespan of a pompom is 10 years. Ramses was only expected to live a couple months when my parents got him. Once he got to Club Kenski, he became rejuvenated. Unfortunately, at 18 years of age, things are catching up to him. He needs a little bit of monitoring these days. I spent a lot of time tonight holding and petting him. He loves affection.

Henry had a good night. We did a lot of chatting with us. A lot of playing with his toys (completely different set of toys at the grandparents' house). He finally crashed in Jeff's arms around 9:30PM.

Super Strong

Henry has been keeping us busy. I spent Thursday morning with him. At some point during the day, Henry started blowing raspberries again. We hadn't seen that trick in awhile. It is kind of interesting because our friend Jenny and Jon have a little girl named Izzy who was a full-term baby and is just short of a month older than Henry's adjusted age. On Izzy's blog about a month ago, Jenny had mentioned that Izzy had started razzing again (after that skill had disappeared for awhile). It's interesting because we'll read about Izzy doing a skill. Then sure enough about a month later, Henry does it too.

My mom came over in the late morning. When mom arrived, I was working with Henry on banging blocks together. Henry would bang the blocks and then my mom and I would clap and say "Yay!!!" Henry figured out that we'd do this every time he would make noise with the blocks. After awhile, my mom says, "Now Henry, your mom and I can't cheer every time you do it." I said, "Speak for yourself!" I continued to clap until Henry got bored and was ready for something else to do.

Grammy stayed until about 1:30PM, when my sister Carolyn arrived to spend some quality time with her nephew. Carolyn was in town for her spring break. I unfortunately had to go to school for some extra office hours as my research methods/statistics undergraduates had an assignment due today. They put off doing the homework as usual and were in panic mode. I missed a lot, but I'll try to recap what Jeff said happened. Apparently, my son rough housed with Aunt Carolyn. He pulled her hair (he loves doing that) and did a lot of kicking. She has long blond hair. I should have warned her to pull it back. I later talked to Carolyn; she mentioned that Henry was rather strong. He is.

Carolyn got to witness an exciting physical therapy appointment with Dorsett. Dorsett banged two plastic blocks together, and Henry imitated her. He did a little bit of toy banging at the appointment before, but this session just confirmed that Henry can imitate. She said block banging imitation is an 8 month old skill. It is a skill that not only demonstrates fine motor capacity, but also cognitive engagement. One has to observe and process things cognitively in order to then imitate a behavior. The second big thing that Henry did was go from being on his tummy to being in a sitting position. He did it once by himself. Then, she put him on his tummy a second time. He tried to do it again, but needed a little bit of help the second time. Big stuff! I can't believe that I missed it for extra office hours for students who put things off at the last minute. Argh.

In the late afternoon/early evening, I was still at school. Henry hadn't slept much. Jeff was sure that he was ready to crash. Took longer than he thought. He ended up feeding Henry who fell asleep in his high chair. Jeff sent me an email of the picture. A nice reminder of home while I was working. Isn't Henry super cute? He did wake up eventually. We ended up giving him a bath. He loves the water.

This morning (Friday), Henry had his synagis appointment. The nurse weighed Henry at 17 lbs 4 ozs. I said that it was great that he's gaining weight, but that also means he'll need two synagis shots, not one. The nurse said, "Well, we'll see." Henry played around on the tissue paper in the office. He tried to unplug some dangling cords nearby, while we waited. The nurse came back a few minutes later and said, "I guess that mom is right." Synagis is already a pretty big shot. We definitely were not excited that he needed two shots of it (one in each thigh). After she was done, I held him and he quieted down. We had hoped that this would be his last round of synagis shots. But it appears that RSV season is most likely going to extend into April, which means that Henry has to get the shots next month as well.

Jeff took today off of work. Veronica had called the night before, ready to start back. But most adults are contagious with flu for 5-7 days. So, we told her that we'd start back up on Monday. I headed to school for additional office hours. I came back mid-afternoon. Tara arrived around 3PM. Henry was a bit fussy with her. Don't know what was up with that. When Henry was sitting on the floor, he started to lean backward. He used his right arm to the side of his body to catch himself. I actually caught him before he needed to catch himself, but I was so pleased that his reflex is really kicking. in. When Tara was leaving, we waved to her and said "Bye Bye!" I moved Henry's arm to wave. As she was ready to head out the door, she said goodbye and Henry flapped his arm at her by himself.

Henry had a new food today: Carrots. He liked them. He didn't make the usual "What the heck is this?" face when I put the spoon to his mouth. He usually gives us an odd expression when trying something new. We think that the camera capturing his first bite was rather distracting for him. He does so love the camera!


We had a pleasant walk in the evening. There's not a whole lot else to report. Henry crashed relatively early this evening. His milk intake has been low today. I won't be surprised if he gets up in the middle of the name because he's hungry.

7 months & 1 year

Henry is doing very well this week. He finally cracked the 17 lbs mark yesterday and today weighed 17lbs 2 ozs. His intake is up. Today he had 980mls, his largest total in a long time. He is still enjoying his solid food as well. He is sleeping more these days as well. Hopefully it will all lead to growth.

We haven't noticed any obvious tooth pain for the last few days. The physical therapist thought she could see where they will be coming in on the top and the bottom. We have tried but haven't been able to get a good look in his mouth.

Yesterday was his 7 month adjusted birthday. I looked at a growth chart and I think he looks like he is doing well. For height and weight he is between the 10th and 25th percentile. For head circumference it looks like he is about the 25th percentile. However, I personally think he has a kind of funny shaped head. It's a bit flat in the back still and seems kind of long. It doesn't look out of proportion to his body at all. He still has a good sized soft spot so he's still set to grow, which he has been doing consistently. I'm not worried. He is obviously very intelligent and shows no signs of neurological problems. It is impressive that he even shows up on these charts for term babies given his rough start.

The day before yesterday was Kate and my first wedding anniversary. We decided to go all out and actually wear our wedding rings that day. We got out of the habit in the NICU because we had to wash our hands all the time.

We ended up giving his nanny the week off because she is sick. She came down with the flu on Sunday. She feels better now but we don't want to take a risk by bringing her back too soon. Grandma and Grandpa are doing their best to fill the void and I'm taking some time off.

He saw Dorsett, the physical therapist, on Monday. He did well once again. His new trick was to imitate Kate who was banging two blocks together. That was the first time we have seen him do such obvious imitation. Dorsett always seems to bring something new out in him. She will be stopping by tomorrow.

There are probably other things I should note but I'm rather tired so I'm signing off. I believe we have a number of cute pictures that we will add later.

Neurologist, Kate's B-day

It's been a few days since we posted anything and not too much is new. Henry is in a better mood these days, and today he had a pretty decent intake of food. Still no teeth popping through.

On Friday Henry visited a pediatric neurologist for an evaluation. He behaved very well and the doctor thought he looked very good. She checked range of motion, muscle tone, reflexes, and asked questions like if he had seizures, etc.

We ran into the "he will catch up" mentality again. We've mentioned before about how some doctors think that Henry should catch up to full term children born at the same time he was, even though they were conceived months before he was and had the benefit of hanging out in the womb for a few more months.

Shockingly the neurologist commented on how he was in only the 2nd percentile for head circumference, which she was concerned by. She, of course, was not adjusting for prematurity and stated that the head circumference for premature children is still typically comparable to term babies. Pah-lease, give me a break. So in the womb Henry was supposed to realize that he was going to be almost 4 months early and so divert all his efforts to growing a head the size of other babies who were 4 months older than him. It's just so stupid a concept that I have to question the intelligence of any doctor who mentions it, which is quite a few. Other than that she seemed like a decent doctor. We will see her again in 6 months.

When we got home from the neurologist appointment, the physical therapist showed up. She is great at what she does but scheduling is not her thing. She had told us she would come on Saturday but there she was on Friday. She hasn't showed up at the time she has said she would once and twice now has been off by an entire day. But she is great with Henry and has shown us how he can do things we didn't know he could.

As usual she was very impressed with his performance. She mentioned how she was bragging about him to a speech therapist she works with, which made us feel good to hear.

Friday night we took Grandpa dinner. He had to take their dog Indy in for emergency eye surgery for a bad lens and was waiting for a call from the vet for an update on his condition.

On Saturday Henry slept a lot. We were going to take him over to visit his Grandma and Grandpa in the evening, but my work called and I had to spend an hour or two on a problem.

Today, Sunday, was Kate's thirty muffle muffle birthday. We took Henry to Grandma and Grandpa's where he was able to visit with Kate's sister Carolyn, down from Pullman for spring break from vet school. Kate and I then went out to breakfast and went shopping for toys for Henry at a fun used toy/clothes shop nearby.

We had dinner with family and close friends, which was nice. It's always nice to show off Henry to anyone we can. He handled the crowd very well. He even helped Kate unwrap her presents and was amused by uncle Jim.

Not So Happy Henry

Henry has been rather fussy the last couple days. The most unusual behavior is that he is waking up from sleep screaming. He has done that the last 2 nights and a couple times waking from naps during the day. He normally sleeps through the night and if he wakes he doesn't scream the way he has recently. He has also been generally much more irritable than normal. His mood can change from a happy squeal to a painful scream in mid breath. His food intake is also dropping again.

We believe it is teething but are not sure. Dr. Bianchi mentioned on Monday that he thought Henry's upper gums were a bit swollen and his behavior is pretty typical for teething from what we have read. However, we thought he was teething a few weeks ago due to large amounts of drool and then it just went away. I guess we will wait and see, the motto of our pediatrician.

Yesterday Henry had a visit from Dorsett, the physical therapist. She was very impressed by Henry again. She had come the day before but Henry was sleeping and she won't wake up a baby to do therapy so she left. We will see her again tomorrow or Saturday.

Today Cuyler and Tara came to visit. Cuyler was very happy with his movement. He did a good job sitting and was making a rocking movement which will help transition to crawling. Our homework is to keep fostering the rocking motion. She said that she thinks he will be a good crawler.

Yesterday Grandma visited in the afternoon. She is off to Pullman today to visit Carolyn and will not be back until Saturday night so she had to get in one last Henry fix before the trip. Grandpa visited last night and watched a lack luster Suns team lose to the Nuggets. He came by this afternoon and was here for the visit from Cuyler and Tara.

There was a little drama this afternoon when Henry's nanny discovered that she had scraped the bottom of her car on our extremely shabby excuse for a road and all the oil had leaked out. Kate has been canvasing the neighbors to see if we have support to get the road fixed, which it seems we do. However, just a little too late for Veronica's poor car.

Tomorrow we have an initial visit with a pediatric neurologist. We originally scheduled the appointment for the earliest slot they had which was May. However, there was a cancellation and we got moved up. We don't see any issues with Henry but are operating under the premise that it is better to establish a relationship with the doctor and get a base line on Henry so that if something does come up we are more likely to get in to see them. Apparently there are very few pediatric neurologists in Tucson and so they are in high demand.

Adoring His Daddy

Henry had a busy Sunday at the grandparents' house. He enjoyed his solid foods. He also enjoyed grabbing Grammy's glasses off her face and tossing them aside. I heard my mom saying "No!" to my baby. Henry is getting rather forceful with his grip. And, he has an excellent arm. We took several cute pictures of Henry. Jeff took one of me holding Ramses (the Pom Pom/Ewok) near Henry and my dad. Ramses and Henry look like they are about the same size.







On Monday, Henry did a lot of sitting up for longer and longer periods of time. He's doing a great job putting his hands on the ground and turning onto his knees, where he bounces back and forth. We had an appointment with his pediatrician yesterday. He weighed 16 lbs 14 ozs. Nothing interesting to report. When Dr. Bianchi came into the room, he said "I didn't get a chance to see Henry in February." Yes, indeed. A whole month with no pediatrician visit.

In the evening, we went for a walk. Henry was so cute. He looked up adoringly at his daddy. Jeff says that he wasn't looking at him; he was just looking up to figure out how to get his hood off his head. I do think that Henry was adoring Jeff. But it is also true that Henry has recently gone through an anti-hat phase. I think that he likes knowing that he has control to move objects (e.g., hats). Jeff took a self-portrait of himself and Henry. With his arms stretched out, it almost looks like Henry took the picture! Grandpa visited in the evening.

Today, Henry was a sack. He slept a lot. Bitsy likes to sleep near Henry in the Boppy pillow. When Henry was awake, he was making a lot of Ba sounds again. Grammy took care of Henry this afternoon. He was pretty fussy this evening. We tried avocados again, but he wasn't in the mood for them, giving us some "yuck" facial expressions. The avocado was very fresh, but it wasn't nearly as flavorful as the ones given earlier.